Sunday, January 19, 2014

TIPS FOR ATTENDING A BRIDAL SHOW


How Much Time Should I Spend at Bridal Show?You will want to allocate between 2 and 4 hours of your time, so that you visit with as many wedding exhibitors as possible. Remember, it could take you two months to see the same number of vendors if you drove to each of their locations. Please arrive early to avoid waiting in line and to obtain seating for our bridal runway fashion show. Seating is limited and is on a first come, first serve basis.

Pre-register.Saves time and it might also save you some money by pre-registering online or at a local wedding shop.

Do a little planning before the show.Make a list in your notebook of what you need most and what your budget is for each item/service. But be flexible and leave some room for the unexpected - you never know when you might see something that you absolutely love that you would have never thought of looking for.

Can I take Photos?Yes, take a camera and take pictures of things you like, and then later you can stick them in your notebook. (Be sure to get the vendor's permission first.)

What should I bring to the Bridal Show?As you meet vendors you really connected with make sure to have a system in place to remember them.  We know that by the end of the show you will be so overwhelmed with information it will be very hard to remember what the name of your favorite vendor was. 

Take a tote bag to carry all the brochures and samples you will collect. Fold a corner of the brochure, write something on any material you receive from the vendor, bring a notebook and write down answers to your questions, or better yet get some stickers that will make the vendor stand out among all the others when you open your bags.  Trust us, going through all the materials you receive will be very overwhelming.

Print up some return address stickers with your name, address, phone number, email address and wedding date. Use these instead of having to fill out all those vendor forms by hand. You might also take some 3 X 5 cards with your return address sticker affixed to it in case some vendors run out of entry forms.

Slip a bottle of water into your bag so you won't have to stand in line when you get thirsty.

Bring fabric swatches or ribbons or paper in your wedding colors so you don't waste time trying to describe your colors to the vendors.

Make sure everyone who comes to the show with you has cell phones and that you all have each other's numbers programmed into your phones in case you get split up.
Bring your calendar, day planner or iPhone with you so you can schedule appointments with vendors that you are interested in.

Get a notebook and tie a pen to it with a string. Then use it to make notes of things you like, questions to ask, prices and details you get from vendors, etc. You may visit with 13 different photographers, 5 different florist and 7 different bakers. There's no way you will remember which vendor told you what. Alternatively, you could have your bridesmaid, or a friend write down things for you.

How should I dress?Dress comfortably and wear comfortable shoes. You don't want to waste time by having to sit down to rest your feet every 20 minutes.

Don’t be afraid to meet the vendors.After all, this is your best chance to get to see what kind of relationship you can have with a future vendor and what they have to offer.  You also eliminate the wasted time on driving, and consultations just to find out that what the vendor offers is completely not what you’re looking for.  Some vendors focus more on the product, some focus on creativity, and some focus on relationships. 

Ask questions.If you are looking for something in particular or in a certain color, be sure to ask the vendor about it. Vendors don't have room to display everything they offer in a small 10 x 10 booth. It's very possible that they have just what you are looking for.

Are Children Allowed to the Expo?Avoid bringing small children to a bridal show.  Even though your flower girl may think she will have fun seeing all the beautiful wedding stuff, children quickly tire and will detract from your mission of finding vendors and ideas for your wedding.

Fashion ShowFashion previews are the most exciting feature of the show and last about 30 minutes each. They take place throughout the day to give you the chance to see one or all of them.  If you have already chosen your wedding gown and your bridesmaid dresses, you may want to skip the fashion show in order to spend more time with the vendors.


Saturday, October 26, 2013


Blooming Blossoms Pocket Invitation
Seven essential things you should consider
before shopping for wedding stationery.


1. Determine how you want your invitations to fit into your wedding vision.
Your wedding invitations should complement the wedding day, offering guests a glimpse of the fun to come. Invitations come in all shapes and sizes and are an excellent opportunity to show your personality. Remember the invitation sets the tone of your wedding, telling guests the formality and style of the event. 
Your invitation is a great place to introduce a significant symbol (tree, birds, hearts, lace, etc…), two-letter monogram {first letters of your names, save the three letter monogram until after you say “I do”}, quote or verse and repeat it again on your programs, menu cards, and other stationery.
 
Bring your inspiration, for both the wedding in general and for stationery, to your appointment. Pictures are a wonderful way to get to know you and provide an excellent visual of your style. You can always send me a link to your Wedding Board on Pintrest prior to your meeting!
 
2. Create your budget for all your stationery needs.
Wedding stationery can range from a few dollars per invitation to more than $20 per invitation. Before your bridal appointment review your wedding budget and determine a comfortable dollar amount you able to spend.
 
So much of the cost depends on the paper selections and printing methods. During your appointment consultation I will tell you about the different paper options and printing methods and guide you to options in your price point. I can show you creative ways to get the most out of your budget.
 
3. Build a well-organized guest list.
Understanding your guest list and how many invitations {households, not people} you need is a must before your appointment! You want to make sure you order extra invitations for those last minute guests and for your scrapbook.  I recommend using a spreadsheet, to organize your guests.
 
4. Decide what information you need to pass onto your guests.
The actual invitation is only one part of your wedding stationery. Often you need to include a response card and/or insert card that includes lodging and direction information. A response card is a great way to get an accurate guest count, before the wedding, note this should be pre-stamped and addressed with the address of the host. Insert cards are particularly helpful if you have a guest list with several out of town guests who need lodging information or if the ceremony/reception location is difficult to find.
 
Before your appointment, make a list of things you might need to tell your guests. At your consultation I will review the list with you and take the information into consideration when showing you stationery styles and etiquette.
 
Guest registry information, however, should not be included in your wedding invitation-ever.  Likewise, you should also leave off the phrase “no gifts please” or anything suggesting guests make a donation in place of a gift. Your wedding invitation should focus on the event and not imply a guest should buy you a gift. However, should you need to spread the word about where your registered or your desires for no gifts it is best to do so by word of mouth or put a tasteful statement on your wedding website
 
5. Discuss, with your family, how your wedding invitation should be worded.
Most traditionally the Bride’s mother and father issue the wedding invitation or host {i.e. pay for} the wedding. But today you will see everything from both the Bride and Groom’s parents to a generic “together with their families,” to the bride and groom themselves issuing the invitation. You need to consider your family dynamics before finalizing who will issue the invitation.
 
“Request the honour of your presence” though the most traditional and best suited for a formal church wedding, this phrase is open to a personal touch that is reflective of the couple.
 
6. Consider the different options for addressing your invitations.
The outside of the envelope is the very first thing your guest is going to see when it arrives in their mailbox, so make the most of the first impression! First, whenever possible avoid using labels, even clear labels. I know it is a “time-saver” but it sends the message of “lazy” to your guests. Presumably the people on your guest list are special to you and taking the time to handwrite their name and address sends a very lovely, thoughtful first impression.
 
However, with that said there are a couple of alternatives that are acceptable. Calligraphy is a beautiful finishing touch to the envelope of your wedding stationery; however it can become costly if you hire a professional. Another alternative is printing the guest addresses directly onto the envelope.  When done well it can offer a lot of personality to the envelope with all the style and thoughtfulness of a hand penned envelope.
 
7. Make sure you have the right postage
Before purchasing postage take one complete invitation to your local post office and have it weighed. This will tell you exactly how much each invitation will cost to mail. If you use several enclosures or have a unique size (square) it will probably require additional postage.

You should plan to send save the dates 6-12 months in advance and wedding
invitations 6-8 weeks before your wedding date.
 

Monday, May 6, 2013

How to Recognize Deceased Relatives in a Wedding Program

 
Your wedding day should be one of happiest days of your life. There's a chance, though, that some of your relatives will pass away sometime before the day arrives. Many couples choose to remember these relatives on their wedding day. One way you can do so is to mention deceased in the wedding program. A small mention in your program is respectful and can mean a lot to both families.
1. Make a list of the deceased relatives you want to list in your wedding program. Most people choose to only list members of the immediate family, such as parents, siblings and (possibly) grandparents. Whom you choose to list can be determined by the relationship you had with those individuals, as well as how long you want the list in your wedding program to be.

2. Decide where in the program you want to place the names of the deceased. Most people choose to place these mentions at the end. This is done to separate the melancholy portion of the program from the celebratory section.

3. Choose a format for your deceased relatives' names: either paragraph form or a list. If you choose to make a list, you may want to divide it into two columns. The first column can list names and the second can explain how the person was related to the bride and groom in such forms as "brother of the groom," "grandmother of the bride," etc.

4. Decide on a heading or introduction for this section of your wedding program. Possible headings include "We Remember" and "In Memory Of." Instead of a header, you can also write a sentence or two, such as "We remember those who are no longer with us." This sentence will then be followed by the names of your deceased relatives.
 
How to Acknowledge Deceased Parent(s)
in Your Wedding Program
In this example, the Father of the Bride is deceased and the Mother of the Bride is remarried. If the mother was deceased instead, you would list her first, above the living father (and step-mother if he was remarried). You can list them under the wedding party section in the following way:
Parents of the Bride
Mr. and Mrs. John William Doe
The Late Mr. Roger Smith


OR

You can just list the living parent in the wedding party and put something under the dedication like this:

Dedication
On this special day in our lives, we lovingly remember Mr. Roger Smith, Father of the Bride.

…or something like this..

The flowers on the altar are placed to the glory of God and in loving memory of Mr. Roger Smith, Father of the Bride.


…or this…
The candle in the narthex burns brightly in loving memory of Mr. Roger Smith, Father of the Bride.
 

Thursday, November 29, 2012

2013 Wedding Trends

Season of 2012 is finishing and I’m already designing invitations for 2013 weddings!  To stay inspired I read a lot of wedding blogs and magazines and I’m starting to notice trends for the upcoming year.  Now, not all brides follow all trends at their wedding, they know what they like and prefer their own style, but it is always good to know what will be in fashion and get inspired.

So you ask, what are the trends for the upcoming 2013 wedding season?  Below are the details that have stood out to me as 2013 Wedding Trends.


Mint
Mint is a trending color that I think will be huge for 2013 weddings. It can be used in many ways – dresses, flowers, invitations, but also signature cocktails, cakes and wedding favors.  The cool color is fresh, modern and retro all at once.  Tip – combine mint with coral.

See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:
 

Birds
They don’t call them lovebirds for nothing!    Expect to see an increase in bird-themed weddings throughout 2013.  You will see them in wedding decorations, invitations, cake toppers, centerpieces, and on and on and on…  Some examples include tossing bird seed, bird cages as card holders, bird themed invitations, and bird’s nest favors (complete with blue Jordan almond ‘eggs’).   I’m also seeing an increase in feather-inspired hair accessories (like veils and fascinators) to subtly tie in the theme.

See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:

 

 

Paper Lanterns
Paper Lanterns are an inexpensive wedding decor and easy to embellish!  String them up along a beach, or hang them from a tree in a garden wedding.  Add your own lighting to create a gorgeous glow.  You can even use them in your backyard for a bridal shower. 

DIY Ideas:

·         Hang ornate ribbons or plastic crystals of different lengths from the lower metal ring

·         Glue on artificial flowers or paper butterflies

·         Embellish with pearl or jewels brads

·         Use shaped paper punches to create a unique design

·         Cluster the lanterns with hanging paper flowers and pom poms
See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:
 

The 1920s
Vintage is nothing new for weddings.  However, with the popularity of shows such as Downton Abbey and the remake of The Great Gatsby coming out I see this as a big trend for wedding themes this next year.  Think Great Gatsby style garden parties and swanky jazz club fêtes.  The style of the 20’s can be very romantic…think of art deco, soft tones of ivory, lace and pearls. 

See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:

 



Backdrops
Whether it is for the photo booth, the dessert table or behind the head table, the possibilities for backdrops are endless!  They can be the focal point of your wedding ceremony decoration and are spectacular settings for snapshots of your fist kiss.

Some DIY ideas:

·         Fabric Backdrops

·         Large floral backdrop

·         Paint on paper or canvas – custom pattern design, favorite poem, monogram, etc.

·         Ribbons
 
See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:
 

Bark
Yes, we said bark. Maybe it is inspired by the rustic trend or the desire for a more natural wedding setting (it would go great with the bird wedding trend) but bark designs are everywhere.
Bark can be incorporated into anything for your event such as centerpieces, guestbook, cake stand, table numbers, etc. The ideas are endless.
See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:
 


Mini Menus
When it comes to appetizers and desserts, mini is mega-cool. Your guests will love small sandwiches, bitty beverages and dainty desserts. Make it more memorable with classic (or exotic!) pairings of food and unconventional or simply knockout presentation. Just make sure there’s enough to go around!

See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:

 


Lace, lace, lace
Lace has always been a mainstay in bridal fashion, but it seems to be making a comeback right now.  Lace details also look great on invitations, cake design, and wedding favor.   In my opinion, we're going to see a lot of lace in 2013! Lace details can be chic and sophisticated, or when paired with rustic or vintage elements, lace can become a bit more whimsical.

See my Pinteest Inspiration Board for ideas and pictures:
 

 
 
 
 

Thursday, October 25, 2012

New Panel Pocket Designs

The panel pocket invitation has been popular with brides who are trying to watch their budget.  If you like pocket folds (but not the price) the panel pocket is a nice alternative.  You still get the pocket, but a smaller price tag.  Here are some new designs from this month.

 


 
 
 

Saturday, October 20, 2012

Need people’s mailing addresses for your invitations?



Need people’s mailing addresses for your invitations?  Luckily you now have Postable!  I was so excited when I discovered this new website.  With Postable you can create a complete, secure, up-to-date Address Book in less than a minute.

Even though emailing is our main form of contact these days, I still recommend sending your wedding invitations the old fashion way – through the mail. That means you are going to need everyone’s mailing address. It’s an easy solution to gather all those mailing addresses. Best of all it is totally private, secure and do not forget FREE.   It’s also great for baby showers, birth announcements, holiday cards & even just knowing where your friends live.

How it works: Postable gives you a personal link (postable.com/YourName). You send this link to your friends and  family. They fill out a 10 second form and your address book magically fills with up-to-date info for everybody. No more months of tracking people down. Export contacts to Apple Address Book, Outlook, Gmail, Excel, and even print mailing labels. So incredibly easy and such a great solution. Start gathering addresses now with Postable!  ww.Postable .com
 
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